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What You Can Do To Obtain a Cheap Divorce

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The critical task for every divorcing couple is to take responsibility.  Take responsibility for the problems in your marriage and take responsibility for seeing that the marriage ends in a manner you can be proud of.  Your active involvement in solving the problems sets you up to take responsibility for your future.  The alternative to taking responsibility is to shift the blame and the responsibility to the other spouse.

Good negotiation requires that you understand your own interests and that you understand the interests of your spouse well enough to seek creative solutions to problems as they occur.  Compromise is necessary, but it must be intelligent compromise.  Negotiations make both intellectual and emotional demands on you.  You will have to let go of the past and give up your attempts to vindicate your anger and resentment from the past.  The breakdown of your own restraint or playing the victim role are the biggest obstacles to your ability to negotiate.

You must also maintain civility toward your spouse.  The less civility you share with your spouse, the more you must rely on an experienced collaborative divorce lawyer.  We are experienced at understanding and working with highly emotional people.  We know how to get things done under these stressful conditions.  Call us, we can help!

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