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The Role of The Mediator

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What does a divorce Mediator do?

Family conflict makes everyone involved feel some degree of anger, sadness, despair and frustration.  Those involved in the conflict have two choices;  one, they can argue and fight.  Or two, they can discuss the dispute with one another in a business like manner showing mutual respect for one another.  It is a mediator’s job to assist the participants in moving forward with a discussion aimed at maintaining a business like atmosphere while difficult issues are discussed.

Feelings of Loss or Emptiness are Common in Divorce

Often new client’s tell us they fell like they are lost at sea. They often do not know which way to turn.  Couples going through divorce or other family disputes often feel caught up in a hurricane of emotional turmoil. They struggle to think clearly; to see possibilities crucial to their well-being. They’re so hurt and angry that rational discussions are impossible.

The mediator acts like a coast guard captain, helping you navigate through troubled waters. He watches your progress, points out when you’re about to go off course or run aground, and guides you through the low points on your way to safety. He also helps you consider reasonable alternatives in a cooperative atmosphere rather than in one filled with demands and accusations.

Our attorney-mediator, Scott Leibenguth is skilled at the art of negotiation as well as the art of mediation.  Both of these skills are necessary to move people forward thorough the dispute resolution process.

 

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